Gay Man's Guide to Using Dildos                                     

 

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A Man's Guide to Using a Dildo

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Dildos, just like every other sex toy, do not come with instructions. So this article should give you enough knowledge to rock your P-Spot [ Male G-Spot ]. Remember there is no right or wrong when it comes to using a dildo. This article is written for solo play; it's the best way to learn about yourself and your dildo. However, even if you want to experiment with your partner, this article can be applied to you as well.

 

Lube it Up !

The most important tip on using any kind of penetrative toy, such as a dildo, is to use a lot of lubrication. The ass does not produce its own lubrication. The material of most dildos will work well with certain types of lubricant. In order to keep things slippery, use  lubricant. Should you be a newbie to dildos and experience pain when being penetrated, Pjur Analyse Me will do the trick. It is an anal relaxer that softens the muscles of your anus making insertion pleasurable.

 

It's the Size of the Boat

We have all seen videos of guys using dildos that were larger than your arm. This is definitely not the place to start. If you are new to this form of anal play, it is best to use a comfortable dildo such as the Blush 6 inch Bulge Dildo . It has a flexible spine and feels like real skin while being just the right size for a newbie. Once you are used to it, then it's best to move up the size scale until you find a toy that feels perfect for you.

 

Make Sure You're Aroused

After applying a generous amount of lube to your anus it's time to start play. Relax, lay back, stimulate your genitals with your fingers and/or hand. If you're playing with your lover, have him orally stimulate you first. You will be more relaxed when it's time to insert the dildo.

 

Sensual Slow Penetration

Insert the dildo slowly while taking a long deep breaths. Breathing deeply causes blood to rush to the genitals, helping them to engorge and relax. Short, shallow breaths or holding your breath stops all that from happening, resulting in tightness and tenseness. Once you insert it, try leaving it there for a moment before pulling it out. You don't have to penetrate yourself with the entire dildo.

 

Enjoy the Feeling 

Whether you're using your dildo alone or with a partner, go slow and be gentle in the beginning. Take your time and enjoy what your feeling. If you find you're getting more excited and want it harder, faster or deeper then do it or tell your partner to do.

 

The P-Spot Orgasm

Known as the male G-Spot, the prostate can provide one of the most intense orgasms you can have. In order to get this with a dildo, it is best to use a toy with a curve upward. You will stimulate this area to extreme pleasure. 

Dildos are some of the best toys a male can use to experience an anal orgasm. Taking time to select the right size, being properly lubed , making sure you aroused and taking it slow will turn the experience into one that you will desire to have on a regular basis. Be sure to check out the reccomendations of toys that will help you reach your maximum.  

 

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