Every man has sexual ideas that never get the light of day. But don't assume your partner doesn't have a dirty side. In order to determine if your parnter is open to experimenting with dirty sex, start off by testing the waters with a few questions on the more innocent end of the sexual spectrum. Try: “Have you ever tied anyone up or been tied up?” “Do you own any sex toys?” “What do you fantasize about when you masturbate?” “What is something you’ve always wanted to try?”

 

These questions should get them to open up and start sharing some intimate details of thier sexual personality with you. Then you can lead down the path to dirtiness and hopefully have dirty sex. If they get scared off by these questions, you have yourself a non-kinky person. Here are our suggestions to help you get them to have dirty sex.

 

Talk About Your Fantasies 

 Dole out a little at a time and see how they reacts. Hopefully, he’ll share some of his inner thoughts in return; when he does, make sure you show plenty of enthusiasm for thier ideas if you want to get him to have dirty sex. An important thing to keep in mind when having this sharing session is to keep it in the realm of fantasy. Don’t start telling about dirty sex you’ve had in the past with others.

 

Make It New For Both Of You 

Approach the dirty experimentation like it’s new for both of you. Think of something you’ve never tried before and suggest that you try it together. This is the perfect time to try some new sexual positions. The Position Master allows you to feel each other in new ways. It has a slanted design and handgrips to ensure you hit those sweet spots that cause leg shaking orgasms.  

 

Play A Sex Game 

A sex game might be just the thing to help you get started. These are usually aimed at couples that want to add some excitement to their love life and they should give you some ideas. I love using the Truth or Dare Coaster Game. It is easy to play and allows you to open up to your partner in newer ways.  

 

Read Erotic Stories 

Get each other in the mood by reading some stimulating erotic fiction. Erotic writing of a less-than-professional caliber can be found all over the internet, but there are also quality sexy stories available from people with actual skill. Pick out something that looks promising.

 

Initiate

You are probably going to have to be the one to make the first move if you want to get a little nastier in the bedroom. Even if you’ve piqued his interest, he’s still not likely to start things off. Start talking dirty, set the mood and hopefully he’ll follow your lead.

 

They May Surprise You 

For most people, revealing their private, filthy thoughts may be difficult, let alone actually acting on them with you. Once you get your partner comfortable talking about it, disclose some of your own secrets ideas, gather some inspiration and try new things. You may be surprised to find out that your partner is more of a freak in bed than you would’ve guessed.