Some people like to give and some like to receive, but with the 69 position you can have the best of both worlds. This position is designed for mutual, simultaneous oral sex. It may be a little more difficult to concentrate on what you’re doing with your tongue when your partner is busy at work between your legs, but it is worth the effort.

When it comes to 69ing, there are some dos and don’ts. In order to make it a pleasurable experience for both of you, check out these tips.

 

Take a shower

As with all sexual acts, especially those involving oral stimulation, it’s imperative to be clean and well groomed down below. Nobody wants to be greeted by unpleasant odors or a jungle of hair; this is bad 69 etiquette. So if you’re going to try out the 69 position, clean up and keep it trimmed. Better yet, jump in the shower together so you can ensure both of you smell and taste fresh and clean. System JO Men's Shaving Cream has a great line of shaving cream designed for your private parts. It won't irritate your skin. Or take out a pair of electrical clippers and take it down a notch.

 

Initiate gradually

You should make a point of easing into it, especially if it’s the first time you’ve 69ed with them.  Make the transition part of your foreplay and gradually get into position. She should take the hint from there.

 

The Lighter Person Goes on top

If one of you has to be on top in the 69 position, it should always be the one with less weight or the girl. Allowing them to take the top position will prevent from being crushed if the 69 session takes a while, or if you get too carried away. Another benefit of them being on top is that they can control the speed, depth and angle of penetration, so you’re less likely to accidentally gag them. This means better oral pleasure for you, so this is really a no-brainer in terms of 69 etiquette.

 

The 69 position can also be done with both of you laying on your sides, which may be a more comfortable option if you plan to keep it going for a longer period of time. This way, you can use each other’s inner thighs as pillows for your heads, making the arrangement very comfy for a more drawn out 69 session.

 

Don’t Forget Them  

When you’re trying out the 69 position, it’s important to not let the good feelings you are getting distract you from the ones you’re supposed to be giving. This is a mutual oral sex arrangement so it’s not fair if one of you starts concentrating too hard on receiving and neglects to perform as well. If this is a problem for you and you find your mouth constantly becoming lazy , you might be better off performing oral sex on each other separately, so your partner can have your full and undivided attention. This is common sense 69 etiquette.

 

 Give Some Anal Pleasure

Take 69 to the next level by giving some deep attention to your partners anus. Tossing Salad as it is commonly called provides a very intense sensation that many can't get enough off. But before you go below the belt make sure your parnter cleans the booty. The Glow in the Dark Anal Douche is a very simple method to keep clean.

 

Peak Pleasure 

By following these tips, you can have a mutually satisfying oral sex experience and be a considerate at the same time, which greatly increases your chances of 69ing a second time. It is a truly unique sensation to be giving and receiving oral pleasure at the same time, and one that no one should miss out on.