First Date Topics to Avoid 

Some first date topics to avoid are obvious, while others may seem like something you would talk about during a normal conversation. The wrong topic of conversation on the first date is a surefire way to make sure you do not get a second date. Consider the following topics to avoid as you prepare for your next first date:

Politics 

 The last thing you need on a first date is an argument.

Politics is a topic to avoid because there will always be something your date will not agree with or vice versa.

Religion 

 Similar to politics, religion is a topic that can cause an argument of explosive proportions. Other than talking about Christmas or Easter traditions, avoid talking about religion on a first date.

Dudes You Dated  

 He seriously does not want to hear about your ex. They are in your past, and he is with you right now. Do not allow yourself to feed into your insecurities about asking your date about thier past. Moreover, a bad breakup experience can trigger negative emotions or anger.

Bragging about yourself 

 A first date is not the time to brag about how great you are; it is not a job interview. Let your considerate actions and sincere words show your date how great of a guy you are.

Weight 

 No matter what his body type is, do not bring it up. While people like to hear they look nice, they are not ready to know your opinion about how skinny or thick they are. This first date topic to avoid will only make your date feel insecure about how he looks no matter how complimentary your words are. And if the guy is larger than average, the mere fact of bringing up his size will kill the date for him.

The Dating Scene  

You have used an online site to meet the man sitting across from you. The last thing he wants to hear is you bitch about how bad it is trying to find someone. Open your eyes and realize that you are with someone in the moment. Complaining about the dating scene makes you appear to be a negative person and negativity is never sexy.

Your Lifestyle

A man that enjoys the good life rarely has to brag about it. If you find yourself out with a guy who talks about his love of shopping and the finer things in life, you may have a gold digger. Men who lead with a lifestyle rarely live it. They are hoping that you will provide it for them. Respect yourself and keep it moving.

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