Although still considered taboo by some, anal sex is quickly becoming a more accepted part of people's sex lives. That said, there are certain things you can do to ensure that your backdoor fun is the best it can be, regardless of whether you're giving or taking. Here are tips to make anal sex pleasurable and a memorable experience for the
right reasons every time you engage in the deed.
Don't Insist On Penetration
Although it's hard to believe, you don't need to stick your fingers or penis inside the rectum for the pleasurable sensations associated with anal sex. By simply rubbing the or even licking it, known as tossing salad or rimming, the receiving person can derive awesome sensations.
Make It Feel Good All The Time
Many men have told me that their first anal sex experience (and sometimes their second and third) hurt but it doesn't have to. Now, if he isn't calm and relaxed, it's going to hurt. If you insist on shoving your penis inside , it's going to hurt. If you don't use lubrication, it's going to hurt.
You need to talk about it and both of you need to agree to do it happily; no one should be coerced into it. You also need to be patient and let the bottom lead the way. If you are going to engage in anal sex, let him hold your penis and guide it in slowly. Go in about an inch, then pull out completely, then go in about an inch farther and
pull out completely. Keep
going in and out at one-inch intervals and pretty soon you'll be in. Pjur Analyse Me is a spray that makes this process comfortable by relaxing the muscles while providing a gentle glide.
Stimulate The Anal Region While Doing Other Things
The sensation of touching the anus or rectum alone may feel uncomfortable but couple it with oral sex and suddenly it'll feel much better.
Change Your Diet
For a pleasurable anal sex experience, it's important for both of you to eat a diet rich fiber, raw vegetables and fruit rather than processed foods. Regular bowel movements are conducive to both comfort and confidence when it comes to anal sex. Adult film stars about to engage in anal sex always undergo enemas beforehand to ensure no "slip-ups."
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Back Door, Man
Ensure anal sex is fun by making certain that you and your partner are comfortable. Don't be afraid to communicate about sex and what you like; it'll bring you closer together and enhance your sex life.